Human beings are social animals by nature and creation. They need to connect with each other by means and relations of friendship, siblings, parents or life partner. The thriving force becomes even more energized in us when we have someone to share our life with, make social interactions or have support from in our life.Relationship comes with different dynamics, between different peoples.
They are sometime easy to cope with and look like a match made in heaven, and in other times it may seem that the relation we have or are going through is very much dysfunctional and filled with drama. Most challenging of all the relations in many cases is the one between husband, wife or lovers.
It seems as if these people know when to say the exact thing, which will make us trigger into an extreme state of emotions. One thing, which is very clear about relationship, is that they take time to develop and commitment by both the associated parties to try their level best in order to find solutions whenever a problem arises.
To work with each other and go through the annoying ordeals as if they are not of much importance and what is importance is to make each other happy and finding the solution. It is due to this commitment that we get to work with our partners effectively in order to have a long lasting relation.
When accounting for a successful relation, time alone cannot be a certain factor upon which the strength of couple PR relationship is based. Even if a couple has been married for many years that would not say that they have been happily married to each in all those years. Because the strength and reality of a couple is proven when they honestly deal with all their emotions with each other. An example of a unhappy or dysfunctional is that if a couple is trying to be together only because of the sake of the children, monetary concerns or an illness of some sort.
There are many reasons for a person to choose to stay in a relationship even if that person is not contended with the relation. In traditional societies and those in the past, the separation between couples was considered a bad thing. Many women ought to be submissive, hence to even think about separation was impossible for many of them. Times have changed now and women have learned to stand for their rights and happiness.
However, even today we see many dysfunctional relationships. This could be because of the reasons described previously i.e. kids, money or health. It should be however fully noted that we choose to give others the liberty to talk with us and treat us in a certain way.We teach others how to treat us through our attitude and setup of bounds.
This may seem surprising to many but this is how it is in real, it is our own behavior, actions and words which teach others to behave with s in a certain way.However, this has nothing negative attached to it. If we are in a relation where things are not going smoothly then it is reversible. Because we can change out attitude anytime we want and make the relation steer towards a much healthier approach of communication and interpersonal relationship.
Sometimes acknowledging the problem itself makes us ready to deal with the interpersonal problems in a relationship. Once we have admitted the mistakes and situations, which are going bad in a relation, we will have to work with commitment and persistence in order to get rid of those situations and choose a healthier way to living life.
It is to be understood that we need to love and accept our self in order to let the other person feel the same for us. This will lead us onto having a healthy, blissful and practical relationship. Giving out respect and love in the same way that we are expecting also makes bonds strong between two people.
People who have low self-esteem also suffer from bad connections in their relationships. They have fewer friends, and most even try to stay away from people.
This could be because they fear being evaluated from them. Another type of low esteem people makes many friends but none of them really good or close ones; this is because they are afraid to have people really close to them. People with low self-esteem may even be with friends that they do not like or feel like are good for them. However, don’t have enough inspiration to break such friendships.
If we want to make good friends then we should do so with people who make us feel good about our self. Staying away from those who make us feel bad regardless of what they say they may feel for us is better for us.